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Missy B is a busy mum of six, blogging the realities of parenting, whilst trying to keep her sanity by reading books and taking photographs in her spare time... if she can ever find any!
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A New Chapter
As a parent things are constantly changing. Recently the years seem to be flying by in a blur, and we have just started a pretty signifi...
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I feel for u Marissa, tough times always seem to last an eternity, but things will get better. U might not see an answer and positivity, but it will come...Dealing with it will make u stronger ( and u already are), so hang in there! It is easy for me to say that, but it is the easy option to let go and give up. Life teaches us everyday, through good times and the worst times unfortunately, but what u will take out from it is knowledge of yourself and also how to cope and survive. U are releasing ur emotions when writing and i suppose it is a good coping process, I hope it helps u.
ReplyDeleteSome might think what I say is S...t, but if support and positivity can help u I 'll b there.
Hope 2 see u soon hun.
Carole.xox
Marissa
ReplyDeleteI have commented before, and know exactly how your feeling, and how hard it is to cope with a child that suffers with ADHD,amongst other things. It may sound corny, but you will find the inner strength and ability to deal and cope with your children. Unfortunately there is no magic wand that can wave all your problems away. Nor is there any firm support from any organisations out there (none that i have found anyway). The only thing i can say is that each child has there own unique way of reward/punishment. You will find ways to deal with them, and if i can suggest anything or offer help in anyway i'm always here. With our eldest it was a constant battle, and it has only been within the last year have we managed to get communications under way between us as parent/child. He used to dictate what he would & would not do, and we would in a way always bend to his way. But after reading hours of parental control, watching numerous videos on children with ADHD, did we find our unique way of dealing with our children. It may seem hard and unfair to some, but it works for us, and we lead a happy and content life. Dil still has his struggles each and everyday, but we work through them together. If you ever wanna talk, i'm here. You can never think your children would be better off without you, because they would not! I know it's exceptionally hard when you have children, but getting even an hour to yourself to unwind would benefit you sooo much, take care xxx
Tasha xxx
it sounds like u are havin a tough time but to be honest maybe u shoulda thought about it more carefully when u decided on having so many children.sometimes one child is too much let alone four and some people are not cut out to hold a large family together especially on one wage and long hours,be that hours alone with the childrwn or hours at work for your partner,sounds to me like one or both of u is going to get ill or break down if things carry on.maybe u should see about counceling.
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